This is How We Fly by Anna Meriano

How I Read It: Print

Dates Read: 1/1/21

How I Found It: Instagram

Hi! Before I get into this post, I want to say that I completely support the LGBTQIA+ community. I do not stand with JFK on many of her opinions. Please be kind and respectful to all people.

First review of 2021 (at least for me, not for you guys!) and I am READY! This is the time where I expose myself for never finishing the 7th book. Maybe one day? I mean, there was a moment where I was going to read the Harry Potter books for the blog so maybe I will in the next 5 years? Anyway, I have seen all of the movies, maybe about 100 times, and I am ready to talk about quidditch!

Ellen is just trying to have the best summer before she heads off to college. However, her step-mother clearly has a vendetta against her, and she finds herself grounded for life. With the help of her friend Melissa, and the loophole of exercising, Ellen gets permission to attend Quidditch practices. Soon, this thing that was just a way to get out of the house and see her friends becomes her entire life. With the fear of losing her life as she knows it, Ellen finds what is the most important for her, and the answer may surprise you!

Firstly, yes for Quidditch. I love books that feature “nerd sports”, the ones that we made fun of kids for doing but as adults sound incredibly fun. (Also, any friends in the Maryland area, want to play Quidditch?) I absolutely loved the way that this was incorporating this sport with the storyline of the story, and I cannot begin to describe how fun this book was to read.

One of the worst things about the print version of this book is the amount of dead space. There are probably 10 extra pages in the print version with nothing on them. While I doubt this is Meriano’s fault, it is something that should be rectified, especially when the main character of this book is so incredibly environmentally conscious.

This book does talk a lot about social issues, and there are a lot of comments that can be triggering. The entire purpose of these comments is to show the disparity between generations, and these comments are used as little digs throughout the novel. But overall, I would give this book 3.5 out of 5 stars.

If you guys have any thoughts or ideas, feel free to leave a comment, find me on the social medias at @elizabooksblog, or email me at elizabethslick@elizabethsbookstore.blog. And as always, I’ll see you all in the next book!

The Midnight Library by Matt Haig

How I Read It: Print/ Audiobook

Dates Read: 12/22/20-12/23/20

How I Found It: Instagram?

Trigger Warning: This book contains depictions of suicide, including suicidal ideations and suicidal notes. This book also has mentions of drug and alcohol abuse. There is a lot of talk about depression, and some mention of self harm. Please read at your own discretion.

Nora is incredibly done with her current life. After taking an overdose of drugs, she is ready to end it all. But instead of death, Nora finds herself in a library. This library, held at the moment of midnight, Nora is given the option to undo all of her regrets and see what life would look like if she made different decisions. As we follow the story, we experience motherhood, marriage, the life of a rockstar, the life of a former Olympian, a glaciologist (which i just learned is a thing), and many more lives for Nora. But as we experience all these lives, we also see the disappointments as we learn that each individual change doesn’t bring her the universal happiness she was looking for.

Here’s the thing about this book, it is incredibly philosophical and an interesting read. I mean, Good Morning America made it a part of their book club (which once again, I had no idea this was a thing), so you have an idea of how important this novel is. However, there were moments where I zoned in and out a little bit as I was listening to this one. There were moments when I was all the way in, and there were moments where I didn’t really feel a part of the story. From what I have seen, that is more of a me thing than an overall feeling.

I recommend this for people who were interested in The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue, or anyone who is interested in fantasy mingled with reality. I personally would give this book 4 out of 5 stars. If you guys have any thoughts or ideas, feel free to leave a comment, find me on the social medias at @elizabooksblog, or email me at elizabethslick@elizabethsbookstore.blog. And as always, I’ll see you all in the next book!

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Reading Goal for 2021!

Hello my friends! It is my goal to read a book from all 50 states of the United States this year! With a little but of research, I am. already figuring that there are going to be some states that are basically impossible (*cough, cough* Hawaii), but I am going to do my best and hopefully remember to track that experience with you guys! If you would like to follow this process with me, go check out my Instagram (@elizabookblog) to see how I am doing it!

A Cuban Girl’s Guide to Tea and Tomorrow by Laura Taylor Namey

How I Read It: Print

Dates Read: 12/24/20-12/25/20

How I Found It: Instagram

When I first saw the cover art for this novel, I immediately put this in my TBR. My entire culture is white American, so it is always fascinating to learn about other cultures and how they see the world. To my friends interested in the Cuban American experience, or just interested in baking/food, stick around for this one.

Lila has experienced the ultimate trifecta: the death of her abuela, a break up, and her best friend moving to Africa. After finally breaking down, her family makes the tough decision to ship her to England for the summer so that she can reassess her life. Upon staying with her aunt in her inn, Lila starts to find ways that she can use her passion for baking to help her aunt. Soon, she begins incorporating the Cuban desserts she learned from her abuela with the tastes of England. Add in a cute boy to taste test, and soon Lila finds herself falling in love with England. But her time there is limited, and saying goodbye will never be easy.

I absolutely loved this novel. Truly, there is something so incredibly comforting about finding yourself in the midst of a crisis. At the time of writing this review, we are still suffering from the third wave of the COVID-19 pandemic. That means that pretty much every moment right now feels like a minor crisis. To have someone talk about a completely normal crisis, but find a way to make us feel a sense of ease at the end of the novel is incredibly needed right now. So, Laura Taylor Namey, if you are reading this, thank you for this novel.

But let’s get into the nitty gritty. I think that this book had a lot of really unique characteristics. While I have read books that include cooking references, I think that Namey found a way of making them her own. I will admit that there were moments that I felt like the story was rushed, especially at the very end of the novel. There were some things that I wish would have been wrapped while Lila was still in England. But overall, this book was really really incredible. I am going to give this book 4.5 out of 5 stars.

If you guys have any thoughts or ideas, feel free to leave a comment, find me on the social medias at @elizabooksblog, or email me at elizabethslick@elizabethsbookstore.blog. And as always, I’ll see you all in the next book!

Let It Snow by John Green, Maureen Johnson, and Lauren Myracle

How I Read It: Print

Dates Read: 1/5/20

How I Found It: John Green

This book marks off the “A Book You Have Read Within 24 Hours” badge on the 40 Book Reading Challenge from Once Upon a Book Club

During a very book heavy winter break when I was in college, I purchased literally every book by John Green. And for whatever reason, this was the only one that I didn’t actually read, which is probably the most ironic thing I have ever done. But I finally read it, mainly because it became a Netflix movie and I have a rule that I can’t see the movie until I read the book.

On Christmas Eve, Jubilee’s parents get arrested at a convention. She is then shipped to Florida on a train that also holds lovestruck Jeb and a whole team of cheerleaders. Caught in a dangerous storm, we follow 3 couples as the night turns into day and their lives change forever.

Despite there being 3 authors, their styles are extremely similar and so it doesn’t feel too jarring between stories. Also, the whole concept is that the 3 stories are all set in the same town, so the authors did communicate among themselves about what happens in each to keep the story succinct.

I think the story is incredibly sweet and entertaining (I mean, I read it in 1 day), but I can’t imagine that it would be memorable. I feel like I have read a lot more stories recently that are better. I would probably rank it as 3.5 out of 5 stars, but that is without seeing the movie yet.

If you guys have any thoughts or ideas, feel free to leave a comment, find me on the social medias at @elizabooksblog, or email me at elizabethslick@elizabethsbookstore.blog. And as always, I’ll see you all in the next book!

A Movie Update:

For my friends that are more movie buffs than book buffs, this movie is clearly based on the book, but has taken a lot of creative license in the storyline. I personally enjoyed the movie, but I truly think that the movie and the book are two separate entities.

One Way or Another by Kara McDowell

How I Read It: Print/Audiobook

Dates Read: 12/20/20-12/21/20

How I Found It: Instagram

Hello and happy holidays my friends! I didn’t necessarily grow up on Lifetime movies at Christmas time, but I did grow up on movies like You’ve Got Mail and Sleepless in Seattle, so I grew up on the idea of romanticized love. So when I learned about this book, I was incredibly excited to read a cute little romance, and then I left it sit on my TBR shelf. But when you finally make the decision to put down the Twilight books, this is apparently the book equivalent of a rebound.

Paige has never left Gilbert, Arizona, but she has always dreamed about seeing the world. With her final Christmas in high school looming, she is forced to choose between spending the holiday in New York City or with Fitz, her best friend and crush, and his family in the mountains of Williams, Arizona. The set up for this book is that Paige has an undiagnosed anxiety disorder, and Fitz is one of the only people who know how to talk her down from her anxiety attacks. But Fitz is a hopeless romantic who is a serial monogamist, and Paige has had to watch the man she loves dating other girls over and over again. So Paige writes him a letter, detailing that she loves him and how it hurts too much to be his friend so they should probably “break-up”. But anyway, we follow the story, with one fate going to New York and the other to Williams, and watch as their lives head down that path.

What I will say about the overall idea of the book, before we get to the fate section of the book, Paige falls and hits her head. I spent the entire novel waiting for the moment where she wakes up in the ground or in the hospital and learns that the entire thing happened in her imagination. As it stands in the book (SPOILERS AHEAD) the idea that we don’t even know which fate she lived out is really frustrating to me. And while I get that the entire purpose was that these two were inevitable, a girl needs to know what happened!

As for the writing style, considering I purchased this on Audible after reading half of it in print gives you a pretty good idea of how excited I was to finish this one. I personally enjoyed this book, though it was a little predictable for romance fans. However, that feeling was probably stylistically added based on the context of the novel. There were some moments where I was a little confused by some parts of the book, but overall, I had a really good time. For all of those reasons, I am going to give this book 4 out of 5 stars.

If you guys have any thoughts or ideas, feel free to leave a comment, find me on the social medias at @elizabooksblog, or email me at elizabethslick@elizabethsbookstore.blog. And as always, I’ll see you all in the next book!

My True Love Gave to Me Edited by Stephanie Perkins

How I Read It: Print

Dates Read:12/20/19-12/28/19

How I Found It: Amazon

Merry Christmas! For those of you that don’t celebrate Christmas, don’t worry, not all of these stories are Christmas related! I am going to give a quick synopsis for each of the stories in this collection, and then give my final thoughts once I have finished all of them.

Midnights by Rainbow Rowell

This is kinda awkward. I actually read this last year, so check out the review!

The Lady and the Fox by Kelly Link

Miranda spends Christmas every year at Honeywell Hall with her godmother, Elspeth and her son, Daniel. When she was 11 years old, Miranda saw a man standing outside in the snow on Christmas night. She finds out his name is Fenny and that he can only be here when it is snowing on Christmas. Following many Christmases, we watch as Miranda grows up and progresses through puberty with Fenny and Daniel Honeywell bringing temptation every year.

Angels in the Snow by Matt De La Peña

Shy is staying in New York to catsit for his boss. The only other person in the building is a young lady named Haley. After an issue with Haley’s shower results in her showering at Shy’s boss’s apartment, they quickly begin to get to know each other. But the number of days until Christmas is narrowing down, and outside responsibilities need to be remembered.

Polaris is Where You’ll Find Me by Jenny Han

During his trip in South Korea, a baby was left in Santa’s sleigh. He ended up adopting the baby, Natalie, and raising her as an elf. She developed a crush on Flynn, a “fellow” elf. Natalie went with Santa while on his trip, and ended up meeting a boy named Lars while in Sweden. Natalie mentioned that she kissed Lars to the other elves, and a mean girl named Elinor began spreading that Natalie was lying. It seems like Flynn is interested in Elinor, which is killing (metaphorically) Natalie, which leads to a crazy ending that hits sooooo hard.

It’s a Yuletide Miracle, Charlie Brown by Stephanie Perkins

Marigold dreams of being an animator. While looking at Christmas trees, she ended up hearing a voice that she HAS to have in her animation project. That voice was attached to North Drummond, the son of the owner. After purchasing a Christmas tree on a whim, North carries it back to her home. Finding it covered in moving boxes, he promises to help her in order to fit the tree into the apartment. Following one night, we follow 2 young people as the learn more about themselves and each other.

Your Temporary Santa by David Levithan

The narrator is pretending to be Santa for his boyfriend’s little sister, and we follow his night as he tries to convince her that he is delivering the presents under the tree. This one is a really short story about what we are willing to do for the people that we love.

Krampuslauf by Holly Black

Look man, it’s a Holly Black story. It’s creepy and weird. The narrator is within a group of friends that is trying to protect their friend from getting her heart broken. The decide to throw a New Year’s Eve party where they will confront that guy and the girl he is cheating with. She met a guy at a charity run and he also got invited to the party. Then things get magical and weird and it’s crazy but also makes complete sense if you have read anything by Holly Black.

What the Hell Have You Done, Sophie Roth? by Gayle Forman

Sophie comes across a gathering of Christmas sweaters and caroling. Feeling completely out of place as the Jew, she finds comfort in making fun of the experience with a guy named Russell. Soon, they find themselves on a wild date filled with Hanukkah candles, apple pie with cheese, and Rolling Stones.

Beer Buckets and Baby Jesus by Myra McEntire

After a prank gone wrong, Vaughn finds himself rebuilding and organizing the nativity pageant. The problem? Her has to work with his crush, who is the daughter of the pastor, his enemy, and the pastor himself. But when things start to go awry, he has to come up with a back up plan (or twenty) in order to keep the pageant going, and maybe get a girlfriend, too.

Welcome to Christmas, CA by Kiersten White

Christmas, CA isn’t really a town, more like a census designated area. It also is where Maria lives. She works in a Christmas themed diner that her mother owns, lives in her mother’s boyfriend’s house, and definitely doesn’t have a crush on the new cook, Ben. When Ben starts making foods for everyone that they absolutely love, Christmas cheer begins to spread in the town. In a story about love, sacrifice, and finding your happy, this story is so sweet and endearing.

Star of Bethlehem by Ally Carter

Lydia is expected in New York City. But when she has to get on the plane, a Icelandic girl named Hulda is trying to get on the flight. Feeling bad for her and not really looking to go to NYC, she trades tickets with Hulda. Turns out, Hulda is a foreign exchange that is in a relationship with Ethan, and she is staying with Ethan’s aunt. Stuck in a really small town called Bethlehem, OK, Lydia learns the meaning of home and what being happy actually means.

The Girl Who Woke the Dreamer by Laini Taylor

Okay, so this one is really weird so bear with me. There is this girl Neve, who is essentially a slave to this town. They have a tradition where men need to leave gifts for girls every advent (the 24 days before Christmas) to ask them out (?) or prove their love. Anyway, the preacher, who is super creepy, picks Neve to be his girl. Neve, not wanting to be his, calls on the Dreamer to come and save her. The Dreamer is a god who originally was in the land but humans banished him by burying him underground where he has been sleeping for the past 2 centuries. When he is awakened, he now is battling with the preacher for Neve’s love. It’s weird and confusing, but I think that is the gist of the story, so yea.

Overall Thoughts

There are some that I really liked and some that were really weird, but overall I really enjoyed reading this. It took A LOT longer than I thought, but I think that is due in large part with the contrasting styles of all the authors. But I could see myself picking this up and reading it again (or at least certain stories)!

If you guys have any thoughts or ideas, feel free to leave a comment, find me on the social medias at @elizabooksblog, or email me at elizabethslick@elizabethsbookstore.blog. And as always, I’ll see you all in the next book!

An Update on Christmas 2020

Hello friends! I know that I have promised Once Upon a Book Club’s holiday boxes this year, but with COVID-19 regulations and the overwhelming amount of packages going through the mail system right now, I have a feeling that I will be receiving these packages very very late (with the current tracking numbers, my packages never left Phoenix in the past week, so my current estimate is after Christmas). For that reason, the Advent 2020 box and the Christmas 2020 box will more than likely be saved until next year. At this point, my New Year’s Eve box has not shipped, but with that in mind, that will also probably be late. So for that reason, I probably will make that review part of next year as well. I am incredibly sorry guys, but I cannot feasibly fit these packages into my schedule considering where I am currently at mentally, and I would rather make it part of the season than to just upload them whenever. Thank you for the love and support, and I will see you guys with the next book!

The Short Second Life of Bree Tanner by Stephenie Meyer

Hey friends! This is a relatively short story, so this will probably be a relatively short review, so buckle in and get ready.

In the novel Eclipse from the Twilight Saga, there is a young vampire named Bree who was part of Victoria’s “coven”. In this novella, we follow the vampiric life of Bree leading up to the giant battle. We start the novel as the vampires hunt in Seattle, and we watch as Bree begins to get to know Diego. Her entire time as a vampire was filled with lies so that their “coven” could be manipulated into fighting in a battle that they had no purpose fighting in. As we continue through the story, we watch as Bree and Diego start to figure things out, and how Riley choses to handle this new information.

Personally, I really liked this story. It does seem weird to me that a 19-year-old was making out with a 16-year-old, but that really is my only issue with the story. I really liked the overall novella, although I would not say that you needed to read this book to understand the series as a whole. I don’t think it contributed enough that I encourage you to read it, but I do like Bree’s character. With all that in mind, I think I would give this book 3 out of 5 stars.

If you guys have any thoughts or ideas, feel free to leave a comment, find me on the social medias at @elizabooksblog, or email me at elizabethslick@elizabethsbookstore.blog. And as always, I’ll see you all in the next book!

An update: I read the majority of Life and Death, and I am so incredibly tired of rereading the Twilight story. I have spent almost a month on just reading these books, and I am more than ready to take a step away from them. For my personal opinion, keeping in mind that I never finished the book, I liked Beau’s personality better than Bella’s, but I wish that the only gender swap was Beau. I would love the Twilight story if the characters were both male, and I think that would have been a better “reimagining” than the one that she wrote. Also, I think that the overall purpose was just to make more money off the series, which fair play, but the story is literally just Twilight but the genders are different, and it just didn’t make the story different enough for me to enjoy this book. Let me know what you think, but I don’t think I will be making a full post on this book.

Is the relationship between Bella and Edward abusive?

If you are in a relationship and someone is trying to convince you that they will kill themselves if you weren’t with them, that is emotional abuse. If you are in a relationship with someone and you have to check with them whether or not you can hang out with someone else, that is emotional abuse. If you are in a relationship with someone and they follow you when you go out with friends or come into your room at night and watch you sleep, that is stalking. These are all signs of an abusive relationship. And these are all things that Edward did to Bella.

Let’s talk about how Meyer tried to justify this, shall we? Bella is supposed to be Edward’s “personal brand of heroin”. She is compared to being a drug because he can’t seem to shake his dependence on her, but she causes him to experience indescribable thirst. Meyer’s justification for Edward’s abusive nature is to say, “well Bella started it”. Let me be clear to the people who are in these situations, you are not the reason that your abuser abuses you. This is a problem with him, not her.

But let’s also flip this post on its head. Bella is an abuser too. She participated in extreme sports and put herself in dangerous situations so that she could hear Edward’s voice after he left her. She created ultimatums so that Edward would do something that he has clearly not supported. And she used her friends and their families to get her way.

(Side note: I’m not going to be talking about the grooming stuff in this post. I have another post where I went into more details about my thoughts on that there, but this post is for essentially everything else).

There are so many examples of abuse throughout these books, so I want to be very clear. THESE ARE NOT HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. Please, do not treat any of the relationships as something to look up to. Also for the record, here are other instances of emotional abuse throughout the books that I particularly took note of:

  • Bella used the words that Renee said when she left Charlie so that she could go to Phoenix in Twilight
  • Jacob telling Charlie that he is a werewolf in order for Renesmee to stay in his life in Breaking Dawn
  • Jacob makes Bella say that she wants him to kiss her in order for him to still be her friend after her engagement in Eclipse
  • Bella using Rosalie to be able to force Edward to let her keep the baby (and Edward pushing for an abortion)

If you or someone you know is being sexually exploited or assaulted, call 800.656.HOPE to contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline. Or you can text 741741 to get in contact with a crisis counselor.

If you guys have any thoughts or ideas, feel free to leave a comment, find me on the social medias at @elizabooksblog, or email me at elizabethslick@elizabethsbookstore.blog. And as always, I’ll see you all in the next book!