I am scared. There, I said it. If you are anything like me, then you understand how scary it is to put yourself out there. And I’m not talking about just public speaking, I’m talking about saying to any old stranger that may come across it that I am terrified of life.
From as young as I can remember, I have been alone. And I’m not saying that for sympathy, I am saying it to make a point. I have, since I was in single digits, been afraid to live. Afraid to go out and make friends. Afraid to see what life had to offer. I am scared. And that’s embarrassing.
When I started the blog, I tampered down that fear. I said, “screw it, let’s do this” and I thought that if I got started that the fear would just go away. And don’t get me wrong, I am nowhere near as bad as I used to be, but I am still scared. I still reread posts, say that I am doing an awful job, try to read myself to death so I can put out as much content that I think will attract people as possible, and put myself through hell in order to put off an air of “I got my life together”. But I don’t. I’m still trying. I took a chance, and I’m taking chances everyday with this blog, and I wanted to share what I have learned along the way.
Firstly, you have to start. That’s normally the hardest part. Take the leap of faith. Ask the person of your dreams on a date, apply for that job you don’t think you can get, just try. The worst thing you can do is fail at that point. It is better to know. Hindsight is always 20/20. “Don’t let the fear of striking out hold you back”-Babe Ruth
Secondly, consistency is key. Maybe that is only talking about this blog at this point, but put in the effort. I could post 1 review every 3 months, but then people wouldn’t keep me in the back of their minds. The hope is that because I post SO much and I produce content that I am proud of, I will get support. And that has worked some days, and completely failed others. The days were I get no views are hard, because I know how long it took me to get that post out, but that just makes me want to do better next time. “If at first you don’t succeed/ Try, try again.”-William Edward Hickson, Try, Try Again
Thirdly, be innovative. Don’t completely niche yourself. Try new things. I have constantly been trying out new things that I can A) talk about on the blog and B) use for the sake of increasing viewership of the blog. If you aren’t moving, you are stuck. So keep trying. Take another step towards where you want to go. “Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don’t quit.” -Conrad Hilton
So go out. Take the risk. It is better to fail and experience life, than to never try. In the words of Steve Jobs: “We had everything to gain. And we figured even if we crash and burn, and lose everything, the experience will have been worth ten times the cost.”
If you guys have any thoughts or ideas, feel free to leave a comment, find me on the social medias at @elizabooksblog, or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. And as always, I’ll see you all in the next book!