Let’s Talk… Reading for Yourself

Thank you guys for everything! I think I start every post with an Oscar speech, but I genuinely feel so grateful to talk about something I love (and have people read my thoughts). Last week, I took a break. I am pretty sure that it is the longest break I have taken since planning posts for the blog, so this was a pretty big deal for me. The first thing I did? Picked up a book. When I started reading, I knew I wouldn’t be posting a review. I didn’t want to think about how I felt or thought throughout the process of reading, I just wanted to enjoy it. Here’s what I learned:

  • Reading is fun. Sometimes this blog can feel like a chore (flashback to the last week of Nicholas Sparks), and reading can feel like a job. Well, more like an internship because I don’t get paid, but you get it. Sometimes it is nice to not have a timeline, a pressure, or a review to think about. Just picking up a book and reading is enjoyable. That was what started me doing this blog, and that is what I stand behind as I read.
  • I don’t read enough memoirs. I read The Hidden Power of F*cking Up by The Try Guys. If you know me, you know that YouTube is a huge part of my life, and I love watching The Try Guys thanks to their humor and wit and ultimate fails. What I didn’t know: they are people, too. They have feelings and families, fears and frustrations, and that I am not so different than them. I have read 1 memoir for this blog, and as great as that one is, I feel like I should have more. Fiction is great, but people are real.
  • Taking a step back is not giving up. When I was finishing the last week of Nicholas Sparks, I could not stop thinking that I needed a book for Tuesday. And to be honest, I had one ready. But then I would have had to push myself for Thursday. And then the next Tuesday. And while I know that I could have probably kept up with the demand, I wouldn’t be able to breathe. There is nothing wrong with taking time for yourself, just like there isn’t anything wrong with reading 2 books on your weekend vacation. But sometimes, we need a mental health day. I turned mine into a much needed week.
  • Positivity over negativity. I was starting to get real negative. Since he followed a set pattern in his books, I had to start nitpicking Sparks. And wouldn’t you know, I began to ignore the parts I liked in order to find things I couldn’t. Taking time to realize that “hey, I don’t like where my brain is at right now” and changing it, means that I can go into the next book with a better attitude.

So yea, I needed this. And you guys probably do, too. Books can be a form of escape, and by taking the time to read for yourself, you learn more about yourself. Keep in mind that you still need to read those books for class or that handbook for work, but you also desperately need time to read that book for yourself. So take the time, you’ll be surprised how badly you need it.

If you guys have any thoughts or ideas, feel free to leave a comment, find me on the social medias at @elizabooksblog, or email me at elizabethslick@elizabethsbookstore.blog. And as always, I’ll see you all in the next book!

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